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Monday Morning Message

A short letter from Colette every Monday: on self-leadership, relationships, and showing up for your own life. 42 letters and counting.

2026

  1. Is this really about me?Last week, I shared one of Don Miguel Ruiz’s Four Agreements: Be Impeccable With Your Word. This week, I’d like to share the second agreement, one…
  2. Let's not Make AssumptionsLast night, as I sat wondering what to write for my Monday Morning Message, I looked up at my bookshelf, and saw: The Four Agreements by Don Miguel…
  3. When being right gets in the way.Colette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message Have you ever had a disagreement with someone and spent the next few hours building…
  4. A Sweet New Year full of gratitudeColette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message Recently Ron and I spent the evening with our dear neighbors. I love being around…
  5. ART - Permission to be just ok at it.Colette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message Today I taught my Nia dance class with my sister Cheryl, and once again I was reminded…
  6. Not All Work Comes With a Paycheck.Colette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message Today is Labor Day. A day when we honor the contributions of American workers. But…
  7. Your Life is Right Now.Colette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message Happy Monday everyone! Confession time: this summer, I kept telling myself I’d get to…
  8. Sunshine, Pop Music, and a Nervous-System ResetColette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message This past week, I had several moments when strong emotions surged through my body.…
  9. Go get your BackpackColette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message I'm standing at the base of something I've been avoiding for weeks. Not because it's…
  10. Everyone Needs Someone in their CornerColette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message HAPPY MONDAY! I’ve been thinking a lot about mentorship lately. Not necessarily formal…
  11. Do you ever feel cranky?Colette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message I'll be honest with you. I am cranky. I am not normally a cranky person, and I hate…
  12. Come Home with New EyesColette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message We are home from vacation. The suitcases are unpacked. The laundry is underway. The…
  13. The Next Ball is Coming Fast!Colette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message The whole world seems to be either watching tennis at Wimbledon or soccer (football)…
  14. THE 3 HOUR DISAPPEARColette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message I love to tape positive sayings, quotes, and bits of wisdom all over my office mirror…
  15. Welcome to Being Alive!Colette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message I heard a phrase this week that stopped me in my tracks: Accountability without Shame.…
  16. My best advice....Get a good night sleep!Colette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message It is 10:38 p.m. on Sunday night, and I have no idea what to write. I am sitting in my…
  17. The Gold Is Already In You! Time to Let It Shine!Colette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message We all have a story. And for many of us, that story comes from a difficult childhood,…
  18. On Resistance, Junk Drawers and Murder MysteriesColette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message My not-so-secret pleasure: I will watch almost any murder mystery, preferably filmed…
  19. Great Advice from my MotherColette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message My mother Joan had a few signature phrases, and one of them was definitely: “Stand up…
  20. Once in a Blue Moon....A Second InvitationColette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message I recently learned what a Blue Moon actually is. On May 31st, the last day of this…
  21. The Eagle and the Mouse - Wings & WhiskersColette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message There’s a metaphor I love about the eagle and the mouse. The eagle flies high above…
  22. A Little Less Gossip, A Little More GraceColette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message I’ve been thinking about gossip lately. Not in a heavy, judgmental way. More in a “we…
  23. Open the windows! It is May!Colette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message There’s something about May that I love. It’s the month where spring finally feels…
  24. Want to feel a little luckier this week?Colette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message Good morning! I was listening to a podcast with Dr. Tina Seelig, a Stanford…
  25. It's not luck. It's being prepared.Colette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message I read this phrase recently.... “Luck is when preparation meets opportunity.” It…
  26. My Brain Has Lots of Opinions!Colette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message I caught myself the other day in a full-blown internal critique of someone else. What…
  27. What are you anticipating?Colette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message What if, just for today, you expected things to go well? I anticipate the best…
  28. Grab a pen and paper! It's Spring!Colette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message OK everyone… it’s time. Grab a pen and a piece of paper. Spring officially started on…
  29. Please Let Them FinishColette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message I caught myself the other day. I was coaching a student… and instead of fully…
  30. Don't Pick It Up!Colette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message I hope everyone had a great weekend! Thank you for being here. Sometimes people hand…
  31. THE FRONT ROWColette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message! Recently I was thinking about something my coach, Susanne Conrad, says:“Be in…
  32. What Would Summer-You Thank You For?Colette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message! If time is going to move this fast, we might as well move with it. Can you believe…
  33. OUCH! Ever been stung by a Silent Stupid?Colette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message! There’s a kind of comment many of us make without realizing it has a sharp edge. I…
  34. - Shed before you GallopWelcome to my Monday Morning Message It’s Sunday evening and I’m sitting at my desk, searching for something I hope people need to hear. What keeps…
  35. February is about Love and Quality ChocolateWelcome to my Monday Morning Message! February is a short month — but it’s full of meaning. It’s often called the month of love, and not just the…
  36. How big is that box you are in?Colette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message! Good Morning! My friend and mentor, Susanne Conrad, teaches a simple concept she…
  37. DO THIS BEFORE YOUR MORNING COFFEE!Colette Sherouse Coaching Welcome to my Monday Morning Message! Most mornings, before my feet hit the floor, my old negative voices show up. Those…
  38. You have to shed like a Snake to gallop like a Horse!Colette Sherouse Coaching Hello from sunny LA Welcome to my Monday Morning Message! What to Shed Before the Fire Horse Arrives According to the…
  39. Why Starting Feels Harder Than Doing (and What Helps)Colette Sherouse Coaching Hello from rainy/sunny California! Welcome to my Monday Morning Message! It’s Not Laziness — It’s the Starting Every new…

2025

  1. BEFORE WE FIX ANYTHING....LETS PAUSEColette Sherouse Coaching Hello from Sunny California! Welcome to my Monday Morning Message! Dear Friends, It’s December 28th, and I can already feel…
  2. BEFORE YOUR NEXT HOLIDAY GATHERING....READ THIS!Colette Sherouse Coaching Hello from Sunny California! Welcome to my Monday Morning Message! As we move into the final days of 2025, the holidays…
  3. Colette Sherouse Coaching - Inaugural NewsletterAugust, 2025 Hello Friends, Welcome to my inaugural newsletter! I am so happy you are here. In this monthly newsletter I will send updates on my…